So I just realized it has been over three months since I last posted. I came to the blog and found a draft of a post from July with a single incomplete sentence in it. Here’s the sentence just for fun, “This has been a fun month with the Fourth of July Holiday and then this past weekend the Chattahoochee Nature Center” … I told Mike all this and he said, “yep, that’s what having another baby does to ya!” Sheesh! Poor Cole, he is already 5 months old and all we have written down for him is his birth story.
Evan has been back in school for a month now and I’m just beginning to catch my breath from the whirlwind of summer. There has been so much going on! So tonight, I will get some stuff down on cyber paper while sipping my lovely hubby-made mojito. I think I’ll look back at the calendar and outline some highlights.
July – super awesome month. We spent fourth of July huddled under a playground platform in downtown Kennesaw during a torrential downpour with a bunch of our friends. I was nursing Cole and both he and Evan were under my nursing cover with me. Evan was surprisingly brave considering the thunder and the odd circumstances. We kept telling all the kids, “what an adventure!!” so they wouldn’t be scared. I found it quite amusing….especially the fact that you could see either end of the isolated thunderstorm and it just went right over us. And yes, we were praying to Zeus to fire his thunderbolts at the large trees around the area and not at our measly shelter. The only other option was to risk being trampled in the pedestrian tunnel crammed with hundreds of holiday goers trying to escape the wrath. I’m more of a stay out in the open and risk sudden death by electrocution kind of girl. Luckily it cleared up just in time for fireworks. Evan hasn’t stopped talking about it since! Baby loves him some fireworks!
Also in the month of July was the Chattahoochee Nature Center butterfly festival. This was a colossally good time and will likely become a yearly tradition for us. For me, it was the end of Evan as a toddler and the beginning of him as a big kid. For the first time, he sat and listened to an entire puppet show, did some festival crafts, got his face painted and other big kid-like activities that made me realize how grown up he is these days…it was really neat to see him having such a great time. He even held out his hand for a volunteer to place a butterfly on his finger AND he didn’t freak out OR close his hand and crush the butterfly. Both me and Mike were wincing and whispering to ourselves “oh gawd, please don’t crush the butterfly in front of all these people…please please please.” I can’t believe he didn’t. Go Evan!
Then there was Evan’s first trip as a big boy to Chattanooga. So many things about that weekend and it makes me sad that I didn’t blog about it. I did write it down in Evan’s journal though so that’s good. And finally, a visit from Nana and Papaw and the cousins. Yah, July was crazy fun!
August was a little slower but lots of fun things nevertheless. One of my favorite things about this summer was hanging out with friends from my old ‘hood and seeing my old playgroup a couple times. We rarely get down to Mableton during the school year b/c people’s school days don’t match up, so we took advantage of school being out to hang out a lot this summer and it was great. I miss those gals and their kiddos a bunch!
Evan got to spend a lot of quality time with his Aunt CC this summer too…spending whole days with her whenever the timing worked out. They went to the Piedmont park pool mostly, and she took him for his first bike rides in a carrier on the back of her bike. The most amazing thing about these Aunt/nephew dates was that Evan would willingly sack out on her living room floor for a nap in the afternoon! Auntie wore the kiddo out!
Evan is really loving school this year…he goes two days a week for preschool type learning time and then one day is “fun Friday.” I was worried that it would be too much for him going two days in a row, but he hasn’t complained about it at all and seems eager to go. I am so thankful for this time b/c over the summer Evan would go wild ape man if we stayed home for more than two days in a row. He could really be a goblin to handle with me trying to juggle newborn Cole at the same time. Towards the end of the summer he started being able to play by himself a lot more but he still got stuck in front of the TV for times I had to take care of Cole and I hated that. Now he can get some fun structured play/art/music time with his teachers and Cole can get some quality Mommy time. I love how much he talks right now…a conversation with an almost three year old is downright awesome. Seems like he’s loving his little bro too (mostly) and always wants him around. I’ve taught him how to scream into a pillow and/or punch a pillow (rather than clobber his brother) for those times when he gets “frusterated.” Its hard to be told to be careful around the baby about 50 billion times a day.
Cole is a little charmer. Getting some pinchable chub in the thighs and wearing a gummy smile whenever someone looks his way. He finally rolled over once yesterday from belly to back and tries really hard to go the other way but hasn’t yet. He’s almost able to sit on his own too. A funny difference between him and Evan is that by now, Evan was our little “pterodactyl,” squawking and jibber-jabbering away constantly. Cole is the quiet observer. He has his moments of shrieking with joy, but he definitely spends more time being quiet than Evan ever did. It will be so fun to see if this turns out to be a personality trait difference too since Evan is definitely the busy body social butterfly. I wonder if Cole will be the mellow background fellow. Cole already worships the ground Evan walks on and I can tell that when he gets to toddler age we are going to be in big trouble. I’m soooo sure he and Evan will be all kinds of trouble in tandem.
Right now we are spending a lot of time being awake at night…maybe more so than when Cole was a newborn. He is a lot more aware of himself these days and realizes it is much nicer to sleep in someone’s arms than in his crib all by his lonesome. We quit the swaddle cold turkey and even when I went back to it, desperate for sleep, I found that Cole was definitely done with it. When we get back from our beach trip in October I’m afraid it will be time for some sleep training. Regardless, we are still in TONS better shape than we were with poor little refluxy Evan who rarely slept through the night his whole first year!
Price Park – Besides being a stay-at-home-mom of two boys I have another baby on the side. I can’t remember if I’ve posted about it on here or not but I know a lot of my Facebook friends have seen my Price Park posts. So what is it? Basically, our county has a 126 acre property around the corner from our house. It has been designated a passive park but they have zero money to develop it. At the public meetings introducing the master plan they mentioned needing someone to start a “friends” group to raise money…so I ended up being the person to do it. I had a few months before Cole was born to put my heart and soul into it and hopefully pass the reins on to someone else. I still got roped into being the secretary but by then it really was another baby of mine and I had to see it grow up first hand. So now I have this AWESOME group of people working on it and it has been so fun watching it grow. We already have non-profit status and had our first event last weekend. I hope it succeeds. Price Park is so amazing and I love having this little piece of wild land to protect around the corner from our house. Our boys will grow up catching bugs and butterflies in the meadow and splashing in the creek there. I can tell them I helped make Price Park whatever it becomes for them (and for me). It has really been a sanity saver to have this project to work on outside of being mommy that I can really identify with too. Hopefully, it will connect me with a career when I go back to work as well. We shall see.
So that’s catching up a bit…a long post I know. Thanks for reading if you’ve made it this far. Until next time!
Here are some pics I didn’t post on Facebook as a reward for reading

What 98% of our brother shots look like...

The esteemed doctor and the worshipping patient

Evan was crushed when he found out we weren't going to let him push Cole around the house.

There aren't enough pictures to remember this side of the equation... How do you like his fish pjs?

Evan and his cousins Olivia and Reece...yay for the dress up box!

Evan and his bestie Maya. I already posted this on FB but it is my FAVE pic of the summer. I love that he asks to see her all the time...and we LOVE her too (and her whole fam for that matter!)